<h1 class="entry-title" style="text-align: center;">Valentine’s Day Will Not Erase A Lifetime of Beta</h1>
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<p>How to Handle Valentine’s Day in a Relationship</p>
<h1>How to Handle Valentine’s Day in a Relationship</h1>
<p>I’ve spoken <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2019/02/13/valentines-day-what-women-really-want/" rel="dofollow">before on the subject</a> of how beta men react to Valentine’s Day, and how you should handle this day in a relationship before the first V-day arrives. A quick and swift, “I don’t celebrate that.” is sufficient, with the topic closed to further discussion. I also talked about why girls react to whatever it is you do or don’t do for that day – because her hen house will peck on and on about what this hen got for her Valentine’s Day, thus making your girl feel cheated if it’s better than her V-day – and she’ll come home and nag, do the guilt trip game, or flat out sleep with someone else.</p>
<h2>Why Valentine’s Day Is a Relationship Test</h2>
<p>If you’re with a woman who cares what happens on Valentine’s Day, you’re not doing the relationship game right. A girl hopelessly in love with an alpha craves not these things, every day with him is a gift, a gift that keeps on giving. A girl’s love cannot be bought, and her annoyance with your betaness cannot be smoothed over by any amount of flowers, diamonds, expensive dinners or what have you. <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia-dating-service.html?gender=female&page=231">If you’re with a single girl</a> who cares, she’s <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2019/02/01/single-on-valentines-day-try-these-things-that-do-help/" rel="dofollow">hyper-gaming you</a> – Valentine’s Day is a litmus test for how ready she is to hyper-game you out of her life.</p>
<h2>Handling the Pressure of Valentine’s Day</h2>
<p>The more demanding she is about this day, the more beta she sees you, and the larger the moistening between her legs for any brutish masculine man that crosses her path or whom she stalks on <a href="https://www.loveawake.com/free-online-dating/Australia-dating-service.html">Loveawake</a>, starring deep into the dreamy pictures he has on his profile. But the concern is on many men’s minds, because most men simply don’t know how to handle girls, and they put a load of pressure on them to satisfy the little princess on her day, on which is meant to be the both of yours day. Valentine’s Day also frustrates many without special attention, as covered in <a href="https://blog.loveawake.com/2025/05/20/the-art-of-gifting-flowers-in-the-digital-dating-era-a-guide-to-thoughtful-gestures/">flower bouquet advice</a> for Valentine’s Day surprises.</p>
<h2>Concluding Advice</h2>
<p>There is no doubt a V-Day Adam out there, with a V-Day Eve that we can trace back that ruined a seemingly innocent day to celebrate romance, and created a day of greedy entitled princesses who will mock and shame you no matter what you do for them. Valentine’s Day is a no win situation, and I don’t believe in the no win scenario. Valentine’s Day will tell you everything you need to know about the health of your relationship, and you can do no better test than ignoring the hell out of the day, and stomping out her expectations as soon as they arise with a probing innocuous question about what ‘we’re doing on the 14th?”. Tell her nothing. And tell her you don’t and won’t celebrate that day. But you need to have backed this up on the rest of your time with her by running successful relationship game, otherwise you’ll just be in the heaping pile, with the rest of the betas, hoping that whatever you do for her on this day will be enough to keep her around for a bit longer, and hope that it conceals that you don’t please her the rest of the 364 days of the year. News flash: it doesn’t.</p>
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